Heat 2 teaspoons neutral cooking oil in a wide sauté pan or skillet over medium heat. Once hot, add the diced onion and cook, stirring often, for 8 minutes until golden brown and beginning to soften.
Add the garlic, capers, and sliced chili pepper and cook for 1 minute or until fragrant.
Add the butter to the aromatics. Once melted and frothy, add the tomatoes and use your spoon to arrange them in an even layer. Reduce heat to low and season everything with salt and pepper and cook for 15 minutes or until the tomatoes begin to soften and the sauce thickens.
Add the water, Calabrian hot sauce (or crushed red pepper) and scrape up any browned bits stuck to the bottom of the pan. Gently toss the sauce together, being careful not to break up the tomatoes too much. If the sauce needs more liquid, add another splash or two of water.